Marriage as a Gospel Magnifying Glass

Beyond the books and conferences on theology and relationships is a seldom visited world called Reality. Unlike the television "genre" that hijacked the name, this place is real.

With marriage as my passport, I have traveled to this land many times and found my home there. This passport has forced me out of my neat theological ideas and cute, fantastical thoughts (the kinds where I picture myself as the greatest guy in the world, waxing eloquent and romantic words while I lovingly serve my wife as Christ did the Church).

Marriage magnifies the Gospel: I am a sinner. I need Jesus.

Marriage is like the red ink on a D+ paper. You are able to see your mistakes...a lot. Marriage shatters my rose-colored glass view of myself and I see my errors and inadequacies, which are usually fueled by my selfish motives/idolatry (Read Romans 1).

In this way, marriage is similar to the Gospel: our sin is exposed for what it is and we realize that there is absolutely no way that we can do this on our own. We cannot live righteously apart from Jesus Christ. His sacrifice and atonement on the cross is the only way possible for us to be forgiven, justified, and cleansed of all unrighteousness. In addition, we receive the righteousness of Christ instead!

Grace is poured out to the saints in the Lord Jesus Christ who cling to the cross as their only true means of life and right standing with God. In marriage, we can model the Gospel to the world and to one another. My wife is a gracious woman, especially when it comes to dealing with me. She forgives me and reminds me of the forgiveness I have received from God. She is hopeful for my life as a new man, rather than the old man (2 Corinthians 5:17). She even loves me enough to say the difficult truths so I can pursue holiness, rather than mere happiness. Together we can show the world that the cross of Jesus Christ is the only REAL way that messed up people can love each other for a lifetime! All of this grace poured out is the fuel for godly living. This grace-fuel precedes any hope of "[Loving my wife] as Christ loves the Church and gave himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25).

Reality is taking the theological ideas and living them out. You'll know it's happening when there is an appropriate and simultaneous amount of pain and joy!

Shattering

I find it so stupid that my tendency is to resist God shattering the old man as he forms me into the image of his Son. Whenever my ugliness is revealed and a redemptive path is paved by God's grace, I try to hold onto the ugly me. I think I'm scared because I feel like I'm losing myself.

But that's the while point: lose myself to find Christ.

Boy is God patient with me!


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Back-Dated

Okay, so a couple days ago I posted a blog on "the Gospel and Discipleship." Strange thing: it back-dated my post to a month ago and now it doesn't show up in the right time.

Here is the post:

http://paintinggalaxies.blogspot.com/2010/01/discipleship-and-gospel.html

It's worth checking out!

Painting Galaxies: Redeeming Culture with the Gospel

So for about two years, my blog has been named Painting Galaxies. I had no good reason for the title other than I thought it sounded cool and captured a creativity that I possess but have difficulty harnessing.

God, in his grace, has recently shown me a new aspect of the title, Painting Galaxies, which has set me a new direction for this blog*. It has to do with what the body of Christ should do to culture: Redeem it. This shows up in a powerful way in Acts 19 when the idol-makers of Ephesus are outraged that the truth of Jesus has shut down their business. CRAZY! Christians changed the economy!!!

This radical, Gospel-centered, Christ-exalting purpose for the Church has not changed. We need to be doing this in our jobs, with our marriages, with our investments, friendships, free time, Facebook accounts, and care for the poor.

Like the Church in Acts 19, saying "no" is only half the witness. In fact, the more powerful witness is what we say "yes" to.

Turn from the idols of culture and run to Jesus. He is the only King.

* Lord willing, I plan to blog a series on different ways we can redeem culture called, "REDEEM IT"

Jesus Wants the Rose

It's All About Jesus!

I borrowed this image and the series title from Mars Hill Church, but found it an appropriate truth to proclaim and prayer to renew my mind. In addition, I am preaching through the book of John on Sundays in our youth group. The truth is, in Orange County, we make it ALL ABOUT US! It is clearly NOT, for one day "Every knee will bow on heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tounge will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father!" (Philippians 2:10-11).

Tomorrow, I will preach on John 1:6-9:

There came a man who was sent from God; his name was John. He came as a witness to testify concerning that light, so that through him all men might believe. He himself was not the light; he came only as a witness to the light. The true light that gives light to every man was coming into the world.

A couple of things stand out to me:

1. John the Baptist had a specific MISSION and MESSAGE: He was sent by God to testify concerning the light (Jesus) so that all men might be saved.
2. John understands that he was NOT the light...it was not about him!
3. He is pointing people to the light, because it's ALL ABOUT JESUS!

We should take a lesson from John and carry out the same MISSION and MESSAGE. It's clearly not about us, but ALL ABOUT JESUS! Pray that the true light that gives light to every man would shine brightly in Orange County so that God may receive all the glory!

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Discipleship and the Gospel

I lay on a mattress on the floor in Texas. I have just spent an incredible night of food, sharing, jokes, stories of mission trips to Thailand, and church life with our host family.

Our pastoral staff is attending a conference called "How Church Works" by Harold Bullock. Harold intentionally sought out my senior pastor, Seth, about 29 years ago while he was in seminary. Harold discipled him and a couple others and started Hope Church. Hope Church is now around 1000 people and has planted more than 70 churches around the world and sent out over 50 missionaries-- all from their own congregation.

Before Seth left Texas for California, he got his hands dirty and poured into peoples lives with the same intentional discipleship that Harold taught him. He taught the Gospel and spiritual disciplines. He then felt called to plant a church in Orange County, so 24 years ago he did.

We came to Texas this week to hear Harold teach on how church works. I have learned so much about how to shepherd people from the consumer mindset in Christianity to the comando soldier mindset.

Not only that, I have seen the power if the Gospel through generational discipleship and how the efforts of other men have impacted me personally.

First, I have gained so much knowledge and wisdom on pastoral care, godly life, and church leadership directly from Seth, but indirectly from Harold. Seth says to me always daily, "Harold always said.." or "From Harold I learned that..." and continue on explaining some biblical truth of Christ's character that must be lived out in my life. Meeting Harold was like meeting a spiritual grandfather that I never knew but one who played a huge part in the life of a man now disciples me.

Secondly, I have met so many people in the kast day who have also been touched by Seth's life (usually over 25 years ago) and are now serving in radical ministry. We are staying with a man who is one of those people. He and his wife are wonderfully hospitable. What is crazy is that I now get to reap some of the reward of the hard labor and obedience of godly men before me. I am thankful for them. I got to see this further while hanging out with our host's teenaged boys and watching a DVD of one of their mission trips to Thailand.

The Gospel is making it's way around the world and we get to celebrate that with beleivers. I am convinced that discipleship plays a HUGE role in that now. I always knew the great commission was true and that we should do it (...make disciples...) but now I have seen that it is real.

Please take the great commission seriously and make disciples. It is a long and difficult process, but through it the Gospel is preached, learned, and passes on...and God is glorified!!!

Working out of Rest

A couple months ago I was completely drained from life, relationships, and ministry. I got to a place where I forgot the heart of why I was in ministry to begin with. At times it can still be difficult not to slip into that same mindset, however, I learned something during that time that keeps me mindful of a healthy rhythm I need in order to keep sane.

WORK OUT OF REST!

Yep. Work out of rest. I need to be filled in order to serve, fill, and minister to others. If not, I'm done.

This is biblical, too. You see, we tend to work in order to rest, sleep, tak vacations, have personal time. God seemed to have set it up I'm a different way. When he created the world, each creation act ends with this phrase: "and there was evening, and there was morning-- the first (or second, third, etc.) day." (Genesis 1: 5,8,13,19,23,31)

Night was the first part of the day, then daylight. We were created to rest in order to work! This should be the way we opperate. I know that if I don't, I run myself to the ground.

God, help me remember that I need to rest in order to work. Keep me filled with your Word, godly relationships, and prayer in order to be an effective worker for your Kingdom!

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I joined the club/cult!

Well it is official: I joined the iPhone club/cult. My wid bought me one for Christmas and today I picked it up from the apple store. I am very excited about the diferenr ways I can stay organized, connected to students, and hopefully not addicted/antisocial! I know this will be a challenge, but I'm up for it! I'll let you know how it goes...


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The Blind Side

It was such a good movie! I could write a deep post about it, but I don't think I would do it justice. It was seriously one of my favorite movies I have seen. Sandra Bullock is amazing in this movie. Plus, it is all based on a true story, which is rad! It made for a wonderful date night with Kaitlin. You should go see it!